10 “Safe” Topics for the Holiday Table

Nov 26 2024 10 “Safe” Topics for the Holiday Table

So, there was an election recently. You might have heard about it.

And here we are, careening to the holidays, almost to the Thanksgiving table. For some of us, this presents a challenge: We expect to count our blessings over a delicious meal with friends and family. Instead, Uncle Harold and Cousin Sally would rather spew political opinions and diatribes.

This might be the year for ground rules. It’s a challenge to pull off as a guest, but as a host or hostess, your table, your rules.

The following are “safe” topic ideas:

1. Kids and Seniors – If there are kids around the table (or kid table), spotlight them. Ask about their interests and school. Have them share a song or poem. Have the seniors among you share stories of celebrating the holidays as children.
2. Veterans – I noticed on Facebook that my friends from opposing political parties are all fans. Pull up a story of a heroic veteran or two.
3. Bucket Lists – Have your table guests share theirs.
4. Jokes – Funny, NON-political, cheesy, and clean.
5. Inspirational Stories – It keeps the perspective positive. Check out: chickensoup.com
6. Sports – This is an exciting time of year for the NFL, college football, NBA, and college basketball.
7. Travel – Share about beautiful places visited and funny travel stories.
8. Favorite Books – My personal preference! Provide paper and pens.
9. Goals for the New Year – New fitness or workout trends, financial or relational goals.
10. GRATEFULNESS – But of course! Count your many, many blessings.

Healthy boundaries and rules of engagement can make for a rich holiday celebration—not perfect, but fun and semi-peaceful.

May your table and heart be replete with Thankfulness.

Now, go start cooking!